Tag Archives: asexual

Asexual Ugliness

Posted on May 18, 2013 by

Let’s talk a little about being ugly. We’ll throw fat in too, since what I am particularly wanting to address is the “You’re just asexual because you’re ugly” idea, and with it the “you just can’t get anyone because you’re … Continue reading →

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The Bleak Future of Asexuality

Posted on April 29, 2013 by

Of all the prompts for this month’s Carnival of Aces theme (The Next Generation), this was the one to catch my eye: “– How might things be different for the next generation of people on the ace-spectrum? How *should* they … Continue reading →

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Ace Mini Meta Going on at DW’s Asexual_fandom comm

Posted on March 8, 2013 by

There’s an Ace Mini Meta Fest going on at Dreamwidth’s asexual_fandom comm (which is just generally a great ace comm if you haven’t heard of it) here.  It’s stressed that it’s very informal and low-key, so if anyone would like … Continue reading →

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Obligatory Ace Valentine’s Day Post

Posted on February 14, 2013 by

Ah yes, another Valentine’s Day alone. Not that it bothers me, though it might bother some romantic asexuals. I love Valentine’s Day. To me, Valentine’s Day is the day when you have just one box of chocolate, while waiting for … Continue reading →

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Why I No Longer Identify as a Sex-Positive Asexual

Posted on November 29, 2012 by

I have decided to stop identifying as a sex-positive asexual. Why? Why not? Why would anyone identify as sex-positive in the first place? I won’t identify as sex-positive because there is no reason to. None. Having sex is an activity, … Continue reading →

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Food, Sex, and Asexuality

Posted on August 31, 2012 by

I don’t like the food metaphors. Is it okay to say that? I know it seems like almost everyone likes to use hunger, or food, or doughnuts, or something along that line, to explain to non-asexuals what being asexual is … Continue reading →

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Oh look, a non-ace with brand-new ideas about demisexuality. Not.

Posted on July 8, 2012 by

Today I had a nasty shock when I went to leave a link to my prior post on the “Shameless Self Promotion Sunday” post over at Feministe. That nasty shock was because I came across a nasty, ignorant post about … Continue reading →

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